NYC Launch

Invite-only matchmaking. Built for real relationships. Starting in New York City.

Bonduo is launching city-by-city, starting with NYC — a calm, verified, values-first digital matchmaking experience built to turn real conversations into real first dates.

No endless swiping.
No fake profiles.
No “collecting matches” for dopamine.

What makes Bonduo different (in 20 seconds)

High-intent community
Phone verification + card-on-file keeps the pool serious and filters out noise.

Up to 3 live matches at a time
Less chaos. More focus. Better follow-through.

Gentle anti-ghosting rules
Polite nudges keep momentum human — not pushy.

Clarity built in
Dealbreakers enforced, “Why we matched” insights, and in-app date planning.

How NYC access works (invite-only)

1) Get invited with a code

Bonduo is currently invite-only.
To join the NYC Founding pool, you’ll need a unique Invite Code from a creator/affiliate partner.

2) Verify + activate your account

Once inside, you’ll complete:
Phone verification
Card on file (intent + verification)
Profile setup + preferences

3) Get matched (the 3-match model)

You’ll see up to 3 live matches at a time — always real, compatible people who mutually pass your dealbreakers.
No preview cards. No fake profiles.

4) Connect → plan a date

Conversation starters and a simple date planner help you move from “hi” to “let’s meet” without pressure.

NYC Founding Members (limited)

Founding price: $39.99/month
This Founding price is grandfathered — you keep it as long as you stay an active member.

Early access to the product evolution
You’re part of the first NYC cohort shaping how the matchmaking experience improves over time.

Referral rewards
Invite friends and unlock rewards once eligibility conditions are met.

No code? Join the waitlist

If you don’t have an Invite Code yet, join the waitlist at bonduoapp.com.

When we hit 10,000 members, we open to the public and pricing becomes $59.99/month.

Who this is for

People who want real, intentional relationships — not endless chatting.
New Yorkers who prefer quality over quantity.
Burnt-out daters who want structure without pressure.

Trust & safety, upfront

Real humans only
Verification + card-on-file keeps the pool clean and high-intent.

Dealbreakers enforced
Hard boundaries are always respected.

Etiquette matters
Repeated ghosting or no-shows trigger time-outs.

Privacy-first
No precise locations, workplaces, or sensitive personal details are shown.

What you’ll see inside (NYC Founding experience)

A focused tray of live, talkable matches only — never blurred or “locked” profiles.
Up to 3 active chats at a time.
Polite nudges at +12h / +24h to keep conversations moving.
Simple in-app date planning.

Quick NYC FAQ

Is there a waitlist?
Yes — if you don’t have an Invite Code, you’ll join the waitlist until public doors open.

How do I join immediately?
Get an Invite Code from an approved creator/affiliate partner.

Do you auto-archive chats?
No. Once a real conversation starts, it’s your choice when to close.

Why card on file?
It filters out spam and low-intent users and keeps the pool serious.

Can I invite friends?
Yes — you’ll receive a referral link or code after joining.

Ready to join NYC?

If you have an Invite Code, enter it and unlock Founding access.
If you don’t, join the waitlist at bonduoapp.com.