(no games, no ghosting, no endless swiping)
These are real people — tired of ghosting, games, and shallow swipe culture — who signed up the moment they heard a better dating experience was finally coming.
Now, this fully rebuilt, compatibility-driven system has been refined, simplified, and optimized into something that gives serious daters a real advantage:
Fewer games.
Better matches.
Real connections that actually move forward.
From people going on their first real date in months to finally meeting someone who matches their values…
We hear stories like this every day from early testers and early NYC members. Yours could be the next real connection.
Stop watching everyone else find relationships while you’re stuck with ghosting and dead-end conversations
Until recently, serious dating apps were built for endless swiping — not for people who genuinely want real connection.
Bonduo changes that by doing the hardest parts for you.
Finding someone compatible isn’t about having flawless photos or a perfect opener. Bonduo’s compatibility system maps your values, lifestyle, and energy — then introduces you to people who actually fit.
Bonduo reduces ghosting and confusion by making intentions clear from the day you join. No pretending. No guessing. No hidden expectations.
Whether you’ve been out of the dating scene for years or you’re trying again after burnout, Bonduo gives you a simple, structured path:
Match → connect → meet → build something real.
No swiping addiction. No chaos. Just clarity.
Even with a small network, you’ll immediately be shown people who share your values — without needing followers, clout, or a massive friend group.
Bonduo does the heavy lifting so you can focus on what actually matters:building a real connection with someone who wants the same things you do.
This is what happens after you join Bonduo
Bonduo learns your values, lifestyle, intentions, and relationship readiness — then introduces you to compatible people who want the same things you do.
No infinite swiping. No randomness. Just intentional matches built around who you really are.
Bonduo’s prompt system, compatibility insights, and respectful messaging nudges make it easier to start conversations that actually go somewhere — without guessing, chasing, or getting ghosted.
You’ll feel clear, confident, and supported from the very first message.
Bonduo gives you insights on chemistry, communication, and match momentum — helping you decide who’s worth investing time into.
The more you interact, the smarter your recommendations become, shaping a dating experience that feels focused, intentional, and stress-free.
We’ve built a simple, supportive system that guides you through the four stages of intentional dating — so you can connect with someone real, even if you’re coming back after burnout, starting fresh, or have no idea where to begin.
This framework helps you move from matching → connecting → meeting → building something meaningful, with clarity at every step.
Bonduo isn’t just another dating app — it’s a complete system designed to help serious daters connect with people who want real relationships.
In addition to Bonduo’s core compatibility and trust features, you’ll also receive exclusive member perks that make dating clearer, safer, and more meaningful from day one.
Start with 60 days free during our NYC launch. No charge today.
Build a high-quality dating profile in minutes with Bonduo’s guided setup system — designed to help you express your personality, values, and intentions clearly (even if you’re not sure what to write).
This bonus gives you an easy, confidence-boosting way to create a profile that attracts the right people, not just more people.
Step #1: Discover Your Relationship Values
Answer a few simple questions to identify what really matters to you — your intentions, dealbreakers, lifestyle, and must-haves.
Step #2: Get Personalized Prompt Suggestions
Bonduo recommends the best prompts based on your personality and communication style, so you can share your genuine self without overthinking it.
Step #3: Craft a Compelling Profile
Follow our guided structure to build a clear, authentic profile that stands out — with suggestions for photos, tone, and conversation starters.
Step #4: Go Live & Start Connecting
Launch your profile and begin matching with people who actually align with your values, energy, and relationship goals.
You’ve just unlocked your personal messaging assistant — a simple, built-in guide that helps you start better conversations and keep them flowing naturally.
This bonus gives you a huge advantage:
No awkward pauses. No overthinking. No “What do I say?” moments.
Helps you craft thoughtful openers
Get suggestions on how to respond to a match’s prompt or photo in a way that feels real — not generic.
Suggests message ideas for different scenarios
From starting the chat… to deepening the vibe… to moving things offline safely and confidently.
Adapts as you talk
The more you interact, the better the suggestions become — helping you show up as your best, most authentic self.
Makes dating less stressful
No marketing hype. No games. Just guidance that keeps conversations clear, respectful, and momentum-driven.
A 90-day members-only experience designed to help you improve your dating results, boost compatibility, and build real connection with genuine, intentional people.
This exclusive accelerator includes:
Weekly Connection Challenges
Small, supportive challenges that help you build confidence, improve communication, and create more meaningful interactions.
Early Access to New Features
Get first access to Bonduo’s new trust, matching, and communication tools before they roll out publicly.
Monthly Q&A Sessions
Learn from relationship insights, communication psychology, and expert-backed advice designed for modern dating.
Community Support
You’ll join a private space of serious daters who share wins, support each other, and keep each other accountable.
Everyone begins at the same point.
Everyone grows together.
And anyone can create a breakthrough connection.
Real connection doesn’t happen in isolation.
You’ll join a private space of intentional daters who:
Share what’s working
Members openly talk about conversation wins, date insights, and their experiences navigating modern dating with clarity.
Support each other
Everyone inside wants meaningful relationships — not games. It’s a place where people hold each other accountable to show up, communicate with respect, and date intentionally.
Celebrate progress together
From great conversations to successful dates, this is where momentum grows — and where people motivate each other to keep going.
This is the community built for serious daters who are ready for something real.
This bonus is your safety net…
Because if you’re not seeing meaningful conversations or progress within your first 60 days on Bonduo…
Our team will personally review your profile, preferences, and interaction patterns — and give you clear, personalized recommendations to help you get better matches and improve your dating momentum.
So you can stop second-guessing yourself
and finally feel confident and supported while meeting someone real.
We’re tracking the progress of new Bonduo members over 90 days — everyone starts from the same place — to see who creates the biggest breakthroughs in intentional dating, communication, and real-life connection.
Top participants will receive exclusive rewards such as:
The most in-demand, beginner-friendly dating experience
| Dating Approach | Effort Required? | Risk of Ghosting? | Time to First Real Connection | Emotional Difficulty? |
| Bonduo | Low | Low | 1–4 weeks | Low |
| Swipe Apps | Low | High | 3–6 months (average) | High |
| Meeting Through Friends | Medium | Medium | Hard to predict | Medium |
| Going Out / Bars | High | High | Hard to predict | High |
| Matchmaking Services | High | High | 1–2 months | High |
You don’t need to trust the dating process — you just need a better system.
Bonduo’s compatibility system helps you understand who actually aligns with your values, intentions, and lifestyle — so you’re not stuck guessing who’s right for you.
Bonduo helps you start honest, low-pressure conversations without feeling like you need to perform or impress. You never have to be loud, flashy, or perfect — just yourself.
You don’t need followers, a huge group of friends, or a busy nightlife.
Bonduo matches you with people who share your energy, not your popularity.
You don’t need experience or perfect game.
Bonduo gives you conversation guidance, respectful nudges, and compatibility insights that help you show up confidently — without overthinking every message.
Get Access to the Hidden Insights Behind Modern Dating
Bonduo’s Trust Center studies real dating behavior, compatibility patterns, communication styles, and what actually leads to meaningful real-life connection.
We understand what works — and what doesn’t — in today’s dating world.
You’ll get access to clear, evidence-backed insights that help you date with confidence and avoid the mistakes that keep so many people stuck, confused, or burnt out.
If you’re done with low-effort swipes, disappearing matches, and endless talking stages that go nowhere — Bonduo gives you a calmer, clearer way to meet someone real.
If your job eats your time and your energy, Bonduo helps you meet compatible people without wasting hours scrolling through profiles that don’t align with what you want.
If you’re re-entering the dating world after a long pause, a breakup, or dating burnout, Bonduo gives you guidance, confidence, and a structured path to reconnect with people who value honesty and intention.
If you’re clear about wanting a real relationship — not hookups, not “seeing where it goes,” not confusion — Bonduo helps you match with people who share the same intentions from day one.
**Here’s Everything You Get With Your Bonduo Membership**
You Don’t Have to Navigate Dating Alone — We’re With You Every Step
If you’re not feeling real progress in your Bonduo experience within your first 60 days, our team will personally review your profile, preferences, and patterns — and help you strengthen your connection strategy for up to three full months.
We remove the guesswork.
We support you with clarity.
And we help you move forward with confidence.
You’re not doing this alone.
Frequently Asked Questions
Bonduo is a values-first dating app for people who want real, intentional relationships—not endless swiping, ghosting, or games.
We match for compatibility, keep choices focused (a calm 3-match model), and guide conversations so good people actually connect.
We’re launching city-first. Phase 1: New York City. Other cities join the waitlist—you can sign up now and we’ll let you know when your city goes live.
You can hold up to 3 live matches at a time. When you close a chat or replace a stalled intro, we refill your open slot from your pool. This keeps focus high, reduces ghosting, and makes real decisions easier—no casino-style feed, no “shopping addiction” loops.
- Fewer, better matches (3 at a time) instead of infinite scrolling
- Guided conversations and optional AI prompts (no cheesy pickup lines)
- Clear boundaries (dealbreakers honored; safety first)
- Verified community (KYC + selfie) to keep out fakes and bots
Absolutely. Most people aren’t “bad at dating”—they’re using tools built for speed, not connection. Bonduo helps you express values, set expectations, and communicate with clarity. Optional AI message guidance can nudge you with tone-friendly, respectful suggestions when you’re stuck.
It’s quick: ID check + selfie liveness (one flow) to confirm you’re real. This blocks bots, catfish, and scammers.
We don’t store your ID images—only the vendor’s pass/fail status and a token per our policy.
No. We’re comfort-first.
If an intro gets no first reply after 24 hours, you’ll see a “Replace” button (Trial: 1/day; Member: 2/day).
Once either side sends the first message, the chat is yours to keep until you decide to close it.
- Compatibility Insights (values & lifestyle alignment)
- Profile Blueprint (guided setup that actually converts to quality matches)
- Conversation Clarity (in-app prompts & optional AI suggestions)
- Connection Framework (a simple, respectful flow from first message → date)
- Community Guidelines & Safety Layer (reporting, blocks, verified profiles)
Yes—lightweight, non–pay-to-win boosts you can try during early launch (intro pricing), like:
- Reveal Now: temporarily unblur photos on a lower-compatibility intro so you can decide faster
- Priority Replace: instantly swap a quiet intro for a fresh one (quota-safe)
- High-Compat Next: guarantee your next refill is a top-compatibility match—or auto-refund the credit • These never bypass dealbreakers or safety rules.
During NYC launch we offer a Founders Trial (60 days free, card on file, no charge today). After trial, membership is $19.99/month (subject to local pricing and promos). We may honor Founders price-lock for early members.
Adding a card helps keep bots out and enables one-tap upgrade. You won’t be charged to start the trial. Billing begins only if you stay after the trial or upgrade sooner.
Yes. You can cancel in-app, any time, for any reason. If you cancel during your trial, you won’t be charged.
Yes. Bonduo welcomes all adults—LGBTQIA+ included. Our matching and safety policies apply fairly to everyone.
We apply your dealbreakers first (non-negotiables). Then we score candidates by compatibility, trust signals, freshness/activity, and fairness (to avoid over-exposing the same profiles). You’ll always see real, available people—never recycled bots.
- Verified profiles (ID + selfie)
- Report & block tools
- In-app date planning (optional) with reminders and norms for respectful behavior
- No outside links in bios to reduce spam/scams
We’ll be transparent. We may extend your trial or expand your radius (for members) temporarily. The goal is a healthy, honest experience—not charging you before density feels good.
We’re building Bonduo for serious connection, not ad time.
No infinite feeds, no pushy gamification, no bait-and-switch. Just fewer, better matches and tools that help you move from “hi” to healthy dates.
Still curious?
That’s okay. You control whether to keep or close a match. We’ll gently nudge quiet intros, but no auto-archiving once a chat starts.
You choose what you share beyond required verification. You can update preferences anytime and pause if you need a break.
No. Boosts never override dealbreakers or safety rules. They simply help you decide faster or refresh when things stall.
- Fill your values & dealbreakers honestly
- Use Profile Blueprint to finish your profile
- Say hello within the first day—short, warm, specific
- Keep your 3 slots active (close & replace a dead intro)
For Creators & Affiliates
- Singles who want a real relationship (not casual hookups)
- Professionals with limited time who value quality over quantity
- People who care about safety, verification, and respect
- Men & women 25–45 in major metros (NYC first), plus mature daters who want a calmer, more intentional app
- 3-match model = calm, focused dating (no slot-machine swiping)
- Real people only (ID + selfie verified)
- Guided conversations & AI nudges for shy users
- No policing once a chat starts—you control the pace
- Founders Trial during city launch (card on file, no charge to start)
We offer competitive CPA/rev-share, first-click or last-click attribution (campaign-configurable), 60-day for the attribution window, and real-time dashboards with city-level breakdowns. (We’ll confirm exact terms at signup.)
- Stories about intentional dating and leaving swipe-culture behind
- Before/after comparisons: chaos → clarity
- Emphasize verified profiles and respectful culture
- Show the 3-match screen and how Replace works after 24h on quiet intros
- Call out Founders Trial and no charge to start
Do: Promise fewer, better matches, safety, guidance, and respect.
Don’t: Promise guaranteed outcomes, exaggerated timelines, or anything that promotes hate/harassment.
Apply here: affiliates@bonduo.app
Questions or special terms? Email: partners@bonduo.app
Once approved, you’ll get your unique link, UTM presets, and the full creative kit.